Phrases — TEA Time with Tayvin Bayless
A Blast from the Past
Definition: A person, object, song, memory, or experience that suddenly brings back an earlier time.
Example: It was a blast from the past, and it really brought out the kid in me.
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A Deluge (Of Something)
Definition: A great flood, used figuratively for any overwhelming amount of something.
Example: A deluge of complaints. A deluge of unsolicited advice.
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A Penny for Your Thoughts
Definition: A gentle way to ask someone what they're thinking about when they seem distracted, distant, or lost in thought.
Example: My wife noticed me staring quietly at the wall the other evening and asked, "A penny for your thoughts?"
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A Torrent (Of Something)
Definition: A strong, fast-moving flow, used for anything that arrives in an overwhelming rush.
Example: A torrent of words. A torrent of criticism.
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All In
Definition: Completely committed to something (a goal, a plan, a cause, a person) with no half-effort and no foot out the door.
Example: In poker, going all in means pushing every single chip you have into the middle of the table, betting absolutely everything on one hand.
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All's Well That Ends Well
Definition: A good enough ending can carry the trouble that came before it.
Example: All's well that ends well.
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Another Thing Coming
Definition: A warning that someone who expects one outcome is wrong and should think again; the modern, most common form of the phrase.
Example: If you think you can become fluent in English just by reading a grammar textbook and memorizing vocabulary lists, well, you've got another thing coming.
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Another Think Coming
Definition: The original form of the phrase. It literally means 'you need to think again,' because a different conclusion is on its way to you.
Example: The original expression wasn't 'another thing coming.' It was 'another think coming.'
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Apps
Definition: A clipped word, short for 'applications' (the programs on your phone), but also for 'appetizers' (the small dishes before a meal).
Example: We got to the restaurant early, so we decided to order some apps while we waited.
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Around the Clock
Definition: Continuing through the whole day, hour after hour, from start to finish and sometimes through the night.
Example: Hospitals run around the clock, because people need care at 3 a.m. just as much as they need it at 3 p.m.
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Assimilation
Definition: The process of a person or group adopting the customs, language, and values of a surrounding culture, sometimes losing their own in the process.
Example: For many immigrant communities, assimilation was not a choice; it was something imposed.
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At Stake
Definition: What you actually stand to lose if things go the other way.
Example: That's what's at stake now, in a way that simply wasn't at stake before she existed.
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Baby Steps
Definition: Small, manageable amounts of progress toward a larger goal.
Example: For now, I'm taking baby steps by learning how to build a small home server.
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Back on Your Feet
Definition: Fully recovered and returned to normal life after being knocked down by illness.
Example: Give me a couple of days and I'll be back on my feet.
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Better Late Than Never
Definition: A good thing still counts even when it arrives after a delay.
Example: There's a phrase for that: better late than never.
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Big Picture
Definition: The overall view or general perspective on something, rather than small details.
Example: Big-picture goals are the final destination.
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Bite Off More Than You Can Chew
Definition: To accept a task or responsibility that is too large or difficult for you to manage.
Example: I have not merely put a lot on my plate. I have bitten off more than I can chew.
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Break Down
Definition: One phrase with several lives: a machine that stops working, a big idea separated into smaller parts to understand it, a person overwhelmed by emotion, or material decaying into its basic parts.
Example: We're up here for a family reunion, and it's also, as it happens, where we have now had not one, but two cars break down.
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Bring Out the Kid in Someone
Definition: To make the curious, playful, or excited part of an adult's childhood personality appear again.
Example: It brings out the kid in me.
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Burn the Candle at Both Ends
Definition: To use up both the early and late parts of the day at once, so your energy runs out faster than it looks.
Example: When you burn the candle at both ends, you're using up the early part of your day and the late part of your day, working both edges at once, and your capacity to keep that up is running out faster than it looks.
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Burning the Midnight Oil
Definition: To work late into the night, past the point when most people have stopped.
Example: I was up burning the midnight oil to finish the script before morning.
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Bury the Hatchet
Definition: To make peace with someone after a long conflict: to set the fight down and walk away from it.
Example: After years of silence, the two of them finally decided to bury the hatchet.
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Can't Shake the Feeling
Definition: Unable to stop thinking about something, or get rid of a persistent feeling.
Example: He could not shake the feeling that there was something very, very wrong about the cradle.
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Carrot and Stick
Definition: Two tools of motivation used together: a reward (the carrot) to encourage behavior and a punishment (the stick) to discourage it.
Example: Some managers run on the carrot and the stick: a bonus for hitting the target, a warning for missing it.
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Catch Up
Definition: To close the gap between where you are and where you want to be, including reconnecting with someone after time apart.
Example: So is there a place your people have already been going without you, or something you've been meaning to catch up on?
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Cognition
Definition: The mental processes used to take in information and make sense of the world.
Example: Researchers study bee cognition to understand how bees learn and remember.
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Come as a Shock
Definition: To be surprising or unexpected.
Example: This will probably not come as a shock to you, but reading is the number one way to improve your vocabulary.
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Come Down With Something
Definition: To catch an illness that has arrived and settled in, like a cold, the flu, or a fever.
Example: You wake up one morning and you have come down with a cold.
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Come Together
Definition: Separate pieces join into one thing that works.
Example: Which brings me to today's second phrase: Come together.
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Comfort Zone
Definition: The familiar situations where you feel at ease; leaving it means facing something new or uncomfortable.
Example: Times like these really push me outside of my comfort zone, bouncing her on my hip, singing the same four words of a song I'd invented.
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Couldn't Put It Down
Definition: To be so caught up in a story that you did not want to stop reading or listening.
Example: That's what I mean by couldn't put it down.
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Cultural Appropriation
Definition: Taking elements of a culture that isn't your own, often without knowledge of or respect for their meaning.
Example: If someone wears traditional clothing from another culture as a costume at a Halloween party, without any knowledge of its meaning or significance, many people would call that cultural appropriation.
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Cut Corners
Definition: To do something the quickest or cheapest way, skipping steps and sacrificing quality.
Example: I tried to save time by cutting corners on my preparation, and unfortunately it showed.
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Cut It Close
Definition: You still make the deadline, with very little time to spare.
Example: There's a phrase for that in English: cut it close. Cut it close.
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Cut Your Teeth On (Something)
Definition: To get your very first experience of something: to learn it right at the beginning, when you're new, clumsy, and still figuring it out.
Example: As a teacher, I cut my teeth on in-person group classes, teaching from a textbook.
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Dark Horse
Definition: A person, team, or competitor that people know little about but that performs much better than expected.
Example: If someone had asked me to predict my favorite theatrical experience from this trip before we arrived in Utah, The Far Gaze would probably have been a dark horse.
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David Versus Goliath
Definition: A contest between a small or weak opponent and a much larger, more powerful one.
Example: A tiny local business taking on an enormous corporation might be called a David-versus-Goliath fight.
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Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover
Definition: Don't form an opinion about someone or something based only on its outward appearance, because you need to look more closely to know what it is really like.
Example: David's victory is a reminder: don't judge a book by its cover.
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Drag Your Feet
Definition: You are slow to start or finish something you still plan to do.
Example: The phrase is: drag your feet.
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Draw a Blank
Definition: To reach for information or words that should be there and find nothing; the page in your head is empty.
Example: While teaching a class, in front of about twenty students, I drew a blank on something I should have known like the back of my hand.
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Drown In (Something)
Definition: To be so overwhelmed by something that you can't keep up, as if the water is rising past you.
Example: You can drown in paperwork, drown in debt, drown in regret.
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Early Bird / Morning Person / Early Riser
Definition: Three names for the same kind of person: someone who naturally wakes up early and feels most alert in the morning.
Example: An early bird is a person who naturally wakes up early and feels most alert in the morning. You can also call this person an early riser or a morning person.
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Elbow Grease
Definition: Hard physical effort done by hand.
Example: All we needed was a screwdriver and a bit of elbow grease.
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Flooded With (Something)
Definition: Overwhelmed by a sudden, large amount of something arriving faster than you can process it.
Example: You can be flooded with emails after a vacation, flooded with memories when you visit a place from your childhood, or flooded with emotion at a wedding.
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Get Away With
Definition: To escape punishment or consequences for a crime or bad action.
Example: He thought that he'd get away with it, but he forgot to get rid of the copies in his locker.
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Get By
Definition: To manage or survive a situation, though only barely and without doing it especially well.
Example: We got by that hour, mostly by sheer endurance rather than skill.
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Get Hitched
Definition: An informal and playful way to say that two people get married.
Example: We're getting hitched next month.
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Get It
Definition: To understand something.
Example: I don't get it. Why would anyone need to cheat to pass her class?
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Get Over
Definition: To recover from an illness, or from an upsetting or shocking event.
Example: I'm sure she'll get over it soon.
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Get Rid Of
Definition: To throw something away or discard it.
Example: He forgot to get rid of the copies in his locker.
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Get Up on the Wrong Side of the Bed
Definition: To be in a bad mood and act rude or unpleasant.
Example: Someone got up on the wrong side of the bed this morning.
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Give It 110 Percent
Definition: To give your absolute maximum effort: more than what's expected, and more than what's comfortable.
Example: This meeting is really important, so let's give it 110 percent.
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Go the Extra Mile
Definition: To do more than is required: to put in effort beyond what's expected.
Example: She always goes the extra mile for her students, staying late whenever someone needs help.
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Have a Ball
Definition: To have a wonderful time or enjoy yourself very much, especially during a social event or enjoyable experience.
Example: Chip and Kass brought a board game rather than a ball, but we still had a ball playing it.
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Have a Lot on Your Plate
Definition: To have many tasks, responsibilities, or problems requiring your time and attention.
Example: Between those plans, a family wedding, a reunion, and everything else that comes with traveling with a one-year-old, I have a lot on my plate.
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Have an Axe to Grind
Definition: To carry a personal grievance or grudge that quietly motivates how you act.
Example: My brother brought up that argument from five years ago at the dinner table. I think he has an axe to grind.
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Hit the Road
Definition: To depart, leave a place, or begin a journey in casual, everyday English.
Example: You don't really know until you've hit the road.
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In the Back of Your Mind
Definition: A thought you have not forgotten, but that is not in front of you until something pulls it forward.
Example: In English, we have a phrase for that: in the back of your mind.
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In the Same Boat
Definition: To be in the same difficult situation as someone else, sharing whatever happens whether you like it or not.
Example: Two roommates splitting a lease are in the same boat the moment they sign it, like it or not.
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In the Zone
Definition: Fully absorbed in a task at a high level, where your skill and the challenge line up so it feels almost automatic.
Example: Once I got in the zone, the writing just kept flowing.
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Inner Child
Definition: The part of an adult's personality that still carries feelings, behaviors, and needs from childhood.
Example: If I build an elaborate blanket fort in the living room, I might say that I am letting my inner child have some fun.
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Integration
Definition: Becoming part of a wider culture while still keeping your own: blending in without erasing where you came from.
Example: He landed on integration as the word that best captured keeping your roots while joining something larger.
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It Takes a Village
Definition: The idea that raising a child well depends not just on parents but on the whole surrounding community: teachers, coaches, neighbors, mentors, and friends.
Example: It really does take a village sometimes.
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Keep Your Eye on the Prize
Definition: To stay focused on your goal, especially when things get hard and distractions pile up.
Example: Hold on to that vision. That's your prize. Keep your eye on it.
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Know Like the Back of Your Hand
Definition: To know something extremely well, in great detail.
Example: Kenneth spent most of his time there and knew the layout like the veins on the back of his hand.
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Learning Curve
Definition: The process of developing knowledge or skill through experience, especially when the beginning is difficult.
Example: My home-server project has a fairly steep learning curve.
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Level Up
Definition: To improve or advance to a higher level, originally from video games but now used for any skill or area of life.
Example: Today we'll be looking at my number one tip for leveling up your English listening and speaking skills.
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Locked In
Definition: To have committed your full attention to a task, with nothing pulling you away from it.
Example: Today, I was locked in on solving a problem I'm genuinely proud of solving.
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Long Story Short
Definition: Used to skip the details and get straight to the conclusion of a story.
Example: Long story short, I was able to learn to speak comfortably in Japanese within only a few months.
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Look on the Bright Side
Definition: To choose to turn your attention toward the good side of a hard situation, not pretending the bad thing didn't happen, but deciding where to point your eyes.
Example: The next time something breaks down on you, big or small, see if you can take even a peek at the bright side.
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Look Someone Up and Down
Definition: To examine someone closely, often with suspicion or curiosity.
Example: He looked us up and down, and gestured for us to come in.
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Lord
Definition: The English word 'lord' comes from Old English 'hlafweard' ('guardian of the loaves,' the keeper of the bread), almost the opposite of how it's used today.
Example: Lord comes from the Old English word hlafweard. Hlaf means loaf, as in a loaf of bread. And weard means guardian or keeper.
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Lord It Over (Someone)
Definition: To act superior to someone, using your position, status, or advantage to make them feel smaller.
Example: My wife and I have certificates giving us the titles of Lord and Lady. But I'll try not to lord it over you.
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Lose Hope
Definition: To stop believing that something you once thought possible will happen; the belief fades, often gradually.
Example: We had lost hope of ever finding his ring again.
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Lose Patience
Definition: To be unable to stay patient any longer, after having been patient for a long time.
Example: After the third delay of the morning, I finally lost patience.
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Lose Track Of
Definition: To stop being aware of something (most often time), usually because you're absorbed in something else.
Example: I lose track of time when I'm completely focused on something.
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Lose Yourself In
Definition: To become so deeply absorbed in something that you stop noticing anything else. Almost always a welcome experience.
Example: You lose yourself in music. You lose yourself in a good film.
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Loss Leader
Definition: A product or service sold very cheaply, sometimes below cost, to attract customers who may purchase other, more profitable things.
Example: It's their loss leader, and if I leave the store with a cart full of groceries, that inexpensive chicken did considerably more than provide a good base for my chicken curry.
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Lucky Break
Definition: A fortunate turn of events, often one that goes your way despite earlier setbacks.
Example: The role was his lucky break after years of small parts.
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Make a Mountain out of a Molehill
Definition: You treat a small task or problem as if it were enormous.
Example: The other half has its own phrase: make a mountain out of a molehill.
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Move On
Definition: To leave behind an old chapter of your life and step into a new one.
Example: I hope we can make some more memories before we leave Texas and move on to potentially greener pastures.
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Nectar
Definition: The sweet liquid that flowers produce to attract pollinators.
Example: Bees collect nectar from flowers and transform it into honey.
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Night Owl
Definition: A person who naturally stays up late and does their best work in the evening or at night.
Example: A night owl is a person who naturally stays up late and does their best work at night.
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Not a Scratch on Me
Definition: Used to say you are completely unharmed or uninjured.
Example: I'm totally fine too! Not a scratch on me…
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Not for All the Tea in China
Definition: A way to refuse something completely, meaning no reward could ever be big enough to make you do it.
Example: I wouldn't have bought a minivan for all the tea in China.
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Novel
Definition: New and not previously encountered.
Example: Rolling a ball to a target was a novel problem for the bees.
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On the Mend
Definition: Recovering. Not fully well yet, but moving in the right direction.
Example: You're on the mend now. Just rest up and drink plenty of water.
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On the Same Page
Definition: To share the same information or understanding so two people can talk about something together.
Example: Once she has it, it'll be done in a day and we'll finally be on the same page.
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Out of the Blue
Definition: Suddenly and without any warning, like a bolt of lightning from a clear sky.
Example: And then, yesterday, something happened out of the blue.
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Pheromone
Definition: A chemical signal released by one animal that affects the behavior of another animal of the same species.
Example: Bees use pheromones to warn the colony about danger.
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Phone It In
Definition: To do the bare minimum, going through the motions without putting in real effort.
Example: I don't want to phone it in with the people I love most.
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Playing with Fire
Definition: To do something risky or dangerous that could easily end in harm, whether or not you realize it at the time.
Example: Someone who keeps replying to a flirtatious coworker while they're already in a relationship is playing with fire.
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Pull Your Weight
Definition: To do your fair share of the work in a group. No more, no less.
Example: Some days I feel like I'm pulling my weight. Other days, I'm pretty sure Emma's doing the rowing for both of us.
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Put Off
Definition: You decide something will happen later instead of right now. It is still on your list.
Example: So on Saturday, I put off my usual cleaning time so we could get on the road a bit quicker.
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Raise Cain
Definition: To cause trouble, make a commotion, or be loud and disruptive, usually on purpose.
Example: Eliana likes to raise Cain, and she knows it. She often makes sure to get my attention right before she does something she's not supposed to do.
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Ride It Out
Definition: To endure something unpleasant until it ends naturally, without trying to fight it.
Example: Some days will be storms, and you'll just have to ride them out.
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Rome Wasn't Built in a Day
Definition: Significant work takes real time; you cannot finish something large in an afternoon.
Example: Rome wasn't built in a day is about why that gap gets rarer over years.
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Row in the Same Direction
Definition: To work together toward the same goal on purpose, with everyone's effort pointed the same way.
Example: They're only rowing in the same direction once they actually agree on how to split chores and bills.
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Royal Road
Definition: An easy or shortcut path to a goal, usually invoked to say that no such shortcut exists.
Example: There is no royal road to English. But there is a road, old, reliable, and well trodden.
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Rub Off on Somebody
Definition: To gradually transfer a habit, quality, interest, or attitude to another person through time spent together.
Example: Some of his habits rubbed off on me.
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Sick as a Dog
Definition: Very sick: miserably, thoroughly unwell.
Example: I was sick as a dog for four days and could barely get out of bed.
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Sink Your Teeth Into (Something)
Definition: To throw yourself into something fully, with real energy and focus: to really commit rather than just dip a toe in.
Example: Language learning turned out to be something I could truly sink my teeth into.
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Sleep It Off
Definition: To recover from something (usually a minor illness or a tiring day) by sleeping.
Example: Just go home, sleep it off, and you'll feel better in the morning.
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Story of My Life
Definition: A humorous way to describe an unfortunate thing that keeps happening to you: a recurring pattern of bad luck.
Example: Ripped pants right before the performance? Story of my life.
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Strike Gold
Definition: To find unexpected success, especially in a project you weren't sure would work.
Example: They struck gold with a side project no one expected to take off.
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Stroke of Luck
Definition: A single moment of good fortune, often very specific.
Example: Running into an old friend at the airport was a real stroke of luck.
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Take It Out of You
Definition: To leave someone feeling exhausted or drained, physically or mentally.
Example: These long tour weeks really took it out of him.
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The Best-Laid Plans
Definition: A careful plan can still fall apart.
Example: The phrase to go with that is "the best-laid plans."
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The Crack of Dawn
Definition: The very first moment of daylight; to be up at the crack of dawn is to wake extremely early.
Example: Every morning, Monday through Saturday, I wake up a good bit before the crack of dawn, at 4:30 so that I can prepare to teach at 5:00.
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The Early Bird Gets the Worm
Definition: People who start earlier or prepare sooner tend to gain the advantage.
Example: The early bird gets the worm, so I wake up before dawn to prepare for my first lesson.
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Tie the Knot
Definition: To get married or perform a marriage ceremony.
Example: After months of planning, my brother-in-law and his fiancee finally tied the knot today.
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Till Death Do Us Part
Definition: A traditional marriage-vow phrase meaning that a couple promises to remain married until death separates them.
Example: There's another phrase commonly connected with marriage: till death do us part.
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Time Flies When You're Having Fun
Definition: An enjoyable experience seems to pass much faster than expected because you are focused on having fun instead of watching the clock.
Example: Time flies when you're having fun.
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Tunnel Vision
Definition: To focus so completely on one thing that you fail to notice everything else around you.
Example: Once I sit down to work on that server, It’s easy to get tunnel vision.
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Under the Weather
Definition: Feeling mildly unwell; an old sailing term for sheltering below deck when ill.
Example: I was just beginning to feel under the weather myself.
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Waggle
Definition: To move back and forth with short, quick movements.
Example: A bee waggles her abdomen during the waggle dance.
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Walk Down Memory Lane
Definition: To spend time remembering experiences from the past, usually with a feeling of nostalgia.
Example: And when was the last time you intentionally walked down memory lane?
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Walk Down the Aisle
Definition: To get married, based on the traditional image of walking along the center aisle during a wedding ceremony.
Example: English speakers might still say that he and his wife walked down the aisle today.
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Walk You Through
Definition: To explain or guide someone through something step by step.
Example: I'm going to try and walk you through some of the reasons you might want to use shadowing to improve your English.
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When It Rains It Pours
Definition: When something bad happens, several other bad things tend to arrive at the same time.
Example: When it rains, it pours, and this month it absolutely poured.
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When Pigs Fly
Definition: A playful, sarcastic way to say that something will never happen because the very idea is impossible.
Example: If I say I will clean my brother's room when pigs fly, I am not just saying no.
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When the Going Gets Tough
Definition: Used to describe persevering through difficult times rather than giving up.
Example: That's not like you to give up when the going's tough.
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Win-Win
Definition: A situation where everyone involved benefits. There's no downside for anyone.
Example: That sure sounds like a win-win scenario to me!
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Windfall
Definition: An unexpected gain, especially of money, that arrives without your effort or expectation.
Example: A surprise tax refund is a windfall.
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Wrap Your Head Around (Something)
Definition: To work at fully understanding an idea that's large, complicated, or strange, the kind that doesn't make sense on the first try.
Example: It's honestly hard to wrap your head around:
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You've Made Your Bed, Now Lie in It
Definition: You caused the situation, so you are the one who has to deal with the result.
Example: The phrase is: you've made your bed, now lie in it.
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